Sexual Health: The Sexual Cycles

For a couple to be happy sexually their sex cycles need to be aligned. Another thing couples must be aware of is which one of them is the high desire spouse and which is the low desire spouse. Normally it is the partner with the low desire who determines when a couple will have sex. Let me introduce the two sexual cycles:

Cycle 1: Desire > Arousal > Orgasm > Resolution

Then

Cycle 2: Arousal > Desire > Orgasm > Resolution

Now what about the other half 50% of the population who fall into cycle 2 they have to get the motor running through physical arousal before they desire sex – Discover your sexual cycle…

So what you need to do is to determine:

Determine which one of you is the low desire and which is he high desire spouse?

In most cases the LDS really enjoys sex but they just need to become aroused before sex. Maybe you can try introduce some sex games or clit teasers to change things up to get your lover in the mood. Remember that 50% of the population just needs to start sex off differently which is great news for couples who are having problems.

If you do happen to be in cycle 2 then speak to your partner and let them know what gets you aroused. Let them tickle your back, neck and let the cards fall where they may…

Couples sex toys will also help…